Jom pegang tangan

One fine morning, while having breakfast with hubby kat pasar..i saw one couple walking by. Not so elderly..in their 30's i assumed. Lebih kurang baya kitaorang..tua skit kot. They walked passed us with their hands were locked together.

i immediately panggil my husband and asked him " Apsal kita tak jalan macam tu? kan best.."
Dia jawab.."tah..tak biasalah".
Then i said to him.."Hishh..tak romantic lansung" .
He replied " Awak kan tahu Amin tak romantic..at least not that way".

On the way back to our car..then dia cakap " Jom lah pegang tangan".
I was like..hmm..malu lah kalau gesture tak natural nih..ada plak ajak pegang tangan..

Well, everyone..every couple expresses their feeling or show their affection differently. Not holding hands while walking together doesn't mean that we are not affectionate towards one another. We do hold hands..at home..or when we go out..just the two of us. When going out with the kids..it is kind of hard coz one will push the stroller and the other one will be holding another child's hand.

Yang penting..affection must be shown. But how or when to show it, it's up the the couple..how they like it, when they like it..and comfortable doing it..and most importantly..not faking it!

1 comment:

Unknown said...

hehehe, kakchik pun suka kalau jalan pegang tangan. selalunya hubby yang hulur tangan , kakchik pulak yg malu nak pegang... tapi pegang juga